I’m a bikini lovin’ mama but I think it’s time to change my ways…not because I feel like I’m getting “old” but because my son (and his friends) is getting older. My kids are used to me in a two-piece so for them, it would not be an issue. However, we are going away this weekend with another family and I’m just struck with the feeling that I better cover up a bit more than my usual 2-piece from Victoria’s Secret. I know the other mom won’t be wearing a two-piece, she is very conservative in dress. I’m thinking I need a tankini as it combines the freedom of a bikini with the more modest coverage of a one-piece bathing suit. A good compromise.
Polka Dot Banded Tankini- cute detail, great price! $49.50
Seafolly 70s Halterneck Tankini Top- still sexy to prevent you from feeling frumpy, great color and graphic design!
Shape fx®- Designed to pull it all in! (who wouldn’t want that technology in a swim suit?!)
Something basic is always great, becoming a summer essential! This racerback tankini is the perfect cut when one wants a little extra coverage!
Sweet and feminine, this ruffled tankini is so playful!
What are your thoughts on appropriate swim wear while hanging out with the kids? Do you still wear a bikini if your kids (boys especially) are over the age of 8 or 9? What about at functions with other families? I’m feeling a little torn on the issue and would love your input!
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I think you can wear whatever you like short of a thong or something that only covers the tiniest part of your breasts. If you go to Europe you see women of all body types in bikinis because that is what they are comfortable in. A tank or maillot can be just as “not-conservative” as a bikini, and there are many modest bikinis.
I am old enough to remember when it was scandalous if a married and middle-aged woman wore her hair down and loose. We got over that.
Yes I think moms can wear whatever they like. Remember, we are women who can choose to be as fashionable as we so desire, now I draw on thongs (lol) but if you can pull off a bikini go for it. I still wear heels with my bikinis, most slides though with 4 and 5 inch heels. Let the diva out. To many women become moms and let themselves go, girl take care of yourself…
I’m a stepmom to two, mother to one and currently expecting. I still wear a bikini whenever we go swimming although now that my belly is getting a bit larger, I put a tank top on with it. If my body snaps back the way it did after my first delivery, then you’re darn right I’m going to wear my bikini again. It irritates me to no end when women let themselves go and then say, “Well, I’m a mom now….” So what? Why should being a mom mean you suddenly can’t be attractive? I agree with Stephanie; as long as it’s done tactfully, there’s nothing wrong with rocking a bikini. Thong bikinis/minimum coverage have NEVER been my style and if you’re a mom, I’d draw the line there. Otherwise, go for it!
You shouldn’t change your ways because of what other people are thinking
but if you are thinking that your sons might be getting the wrong impression of you or what to look for in a girl then maybe its something consider. I am not saying to let yourself go but be comfortable. Maybe you should talk with your significant other and ask him what he thinks. Of course he will always love the bikini but ask him to consider your thoughts about the kids. Most of all if you think it will totally offend the other family covering up a little gives you a good excuse to shop and will make the event a little more comfortable.